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Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD (CA Lic.# PSY19046)
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Life throws lots of stressful situations at us on a regular basis. We do our best to handle it, sometimes by yourself and sometimes with others' advice. Here are some articles that explain what you might be experiencing as a trauma survivor, mourner, or person getting through this complex world, one day at a time. They're not meant to replace diagnosis or medical advice, but they can help you sort some things out for yourself. Hope you enjoy them.
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The difference between healthy love and codependency
What is the difference between codependency & healthy love relationships? This post explores codependency and how to spot it in your union.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
4 days ago4 min read
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Love and Learn: Recognizing Red Flags in Romantic Relationships
Do you see red flags in a dating relationship? This post breaks down many common red flags into categories and explains their impact on you.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Mar 104 min read
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Tips for Navigating Political Disagreements With Family Members
Funny how members of the same family can disagree so much. Photo: Sarah Kilian Navigating political disagreement within families can be...
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Jan 274 min read
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How to Keep Your Relationship Strong While Maintaining Healthy Boundaries
Do you and your partner struggle with finding the sweet spot between being together and healthy boundaries? Read more to learn this skill.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Jan 203 min read
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6 Signs of a Trauma Bond in Love Relationships
Trauma bonds are formed when there is emotional upheaval, a power differential, and pain confused with love. Read more to understand.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Jan 134 min read
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How to Manage Couple Disagreements Without Hurting Each Other
Couple disagreements are common, but don't have to lead to resentment. Learn how to disagree better.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Oct 28, 20245 min read
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Strengthening Your Bond: Why you Should Get Couples Counseling
Why get couples therapy? This post explains what couples therapy is and how it can benefit your love relationship.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Sep 30, 20244 min read
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How Does Unhealthy Shame Affect Your Relationships?
Discover how unhealthy shame impacts relationships. Learn how to recognize and overcome shame-based patterns and love yourself.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Jul 29, 20244 min read
108 views
How Does Attachment Theory Impact Valentine's Day Celebrations?
Attachment theory is at the heart of healthy love relationships. Attachment Theory in Romantic/Sexual Relationships Of course,...
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Feb 13, 20244 min read
108 views
Trusting After Trauma
Is it hard for you to trust other people because of past traumatic events? This is a big challenges of PTSD. Read for more tips.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Mar 27, 20234 min read
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What are the different types of attachment?
Attachment styles influence how you handle stress and form relationships later in life. This post discusses different types of attachment.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Feb 6, 20235 min read
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Removing the Limits on Love
Having been hurt by trauma can make it hard to trust and love again. This post explores how to heal from your traumatic past and love again.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Jan 29, 20233 min read
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Relationships Don't Have to be Painful
Are your relationships painful and full of conflict? This post talks about how to make relationships more pleasant.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Oct 11, 20223 min read
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Are You Being Aggressive?
If you're concerned about whether you're being too aggressive, this post helps you understand the difference between that and assertiveness.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Sep 23, 20224 min read
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Recognizing Signs of Exploitation in a Relationship
If you are being exploited in a relationship, you don't have to continue. Here are some questions for yourself to recognize and break free.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
May 30, 20225 min read
35 views
3 Ways to Fix Difficult Relationships with Loved Ones
Do you have unrealistic expectations of loved ones? Do you shut down? Learn to fix difficult relationships with loved ones in this post.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Oct 25, 20214 min read
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Do You Have One-Sided Relationships?
Do you find yourself in one sided friendships often? Would you like to learn how to have better relationships? Read on for tips.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Nov 13, 20203 min read
32 views
The Gift of Yourself
What is the best Valentine's Day gift of all? Your attention, warmth, & full presence. This post explains how to give the gift of yourself.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Feb 11, 20192 min read
16 views
What Are the Benefits of Friendship?
There are many physical and mental benefits of having friends, but anxiety can get in the way. This post explores how friendship helps you.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Oct 15, 20184 min read
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The Costs of Critical Judgment
Critical judgment is a hard habit for some to kick. If you are doing this to yourself and others, please read on for tips on changing this.
Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD
Sep 13, 20185 min read
94 views
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